Allow me to connect with you for a brief moment, if you will...
Being the person that I am, I actually have time to sit and observe what goes on in my everyday life from past to present. I feel that it's something that we all should do even if it's only for 30mins out of our everyday routine.12 months in a year, yet only four seasons... I guess it's safe to say that a lot has to take place during this time duration. Whether you're in school, working, being a bum, or just living your life, I refuse to believe that nothing at all passes you by. But dats irrelevant at this time. Allow me to ask you this... Who wants to go through a whole year without having anyone at all to befriend, console to, work with, or even say simple words such "Hello" and "Take care" to? Is it safe to say none of us?
With that being said, the simple fact that I'm even taking the time to write this note shows that people have been placed into my life, or else i wouldn't have anyone to share it will. Hmm? Did i really just say that YOU were placed into my life???? It's true, everyone comes into your life for a reason, but it's upto you to determine if it was a positive or negative cause. I don't see anything wrong with getting to know someone, because I believe that somewhere in that process you are also getting to know yourself. Don't get it twisted though, I'm not insinuating that you go out and meet people just so that you can find out something about yourself, however, you can go out and meet people to test the waters. What I mean by that is, you may meet someone that you click with instantly and seems like the sun will always shine. But then you meet those people who gives you a harder time at getting to know them... I like to call them "Da Stormz of My Life". LOL! I told the storm to pass, storm you won't last... meaning that even though it started off so stormy, the sun somehow started to shine again.
It's funny because those friendships that seemed like nothing could ever go wrong, are usually the friendships that are seasonal. You expect nothing but good things to come from it, yet their the ones that will most likely hurt you in the end. Where as, those friendships that didn't seem so friendly in the beginning, you know the ones that took you through the storm and back... I honestly feel that those are the friendships that will last a LIFETIME. No friendship is perfect, and neither are we. Feel me?True... this may not make a lot of sense to some of you, but the truth lies in the eyes of the beholder (or writer) in this case. C'mon I know you can agree with me when I say that some people are seasons, while others are forever. Only you can determine which is which. Real talk.
But I can assure you, it's probaly going to be those seasonals that teaches you a lifelong lesson in the end.
Just a thought... what's yours?
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